I always find a clean spoon before I need to wash up, and say, wow there’s always one clean spoon left in the draw for me! I always fill my sink with water then find milk in a bowl, gravy on a plate, or vegetable water in a pan, something I should have thrown down the drain before I filled the sink, just so I could put that plate/pan/bowl, in the water to be cleaned.

Who cares, what is the point of this boring trivia, well the point is, I always talk positive about a fork or spoon always being available so I can eat before I need to wash up. And I always speak negatively about some liquid being left in a bowl/pan etc after I filled the sink. So I expect to find a clean spoon, I expect the universe to deliver, and I expect find a pot with liquid in it hidden somewhere among my dishes even if I emptied others.

So the universe always delivers my request, our expectations and beliefs. Once I was folding and tearing paper down the fold with a friend, such a simple task, but this person said, wow, how is yours so clean cut while I can’t tear a straight line. I said, because I expect it to tear cleanly. I see it in my mind before I even try it, so one peice after the other tore perfectly. I told them to see it, expect and believe it, and within minutes they did it.

If we expect it… good or bad, positive or negative, then like it or not that is what we will receive. So when we say,woe is me, why did god do this to me? The answer is… because we had asked god/the universe to do it to us!There is no other way anything in our lives could possibly manifest unless we asked for it, thought about it, worried about it, expected or believed it!

Are you getting the picture? If you think, believe, and say, every time you throw something in a bin you miss, then you will always miss. And if you think, I never miss, then you never do! Yet it’s so hard to change the mind.

It’s so difficult to believe we can aim and hit the bin, empty all our pans before washing, or decide there will be no clean spoons. Changing both positive and negative habitual thoughts is hard, as it is what we know to be true. it has always been, so why would things change now? This is the very mindset that rules our outer world, that convinces our inner world we are always right… this is the facts, the truth we experience every day!

So how can anything change? Well this belief is why nothing changes, it is why we walk exactly the same path every day of our lives, why nothing exciting happens, simply because we truly believe nothing exciting ever happens. Those negative seeds were planted long ago, not by you initially but by others, your parents, your peers, your teacher, church, gov, media!

Once planted, seeds grow and bloom into fully formed beliefs, changing those beliefs is seemingly impossible. It is like blooming as a snow drop then trying to turn yourself into a daffodil, just by using your imagination. That is one hell of a task, but it is possible, as we can change height, body shape, facial features, or baldness, through our thought and belief alone.

It may even take surgical precedures but who’s thoughts manifested that dream? We can stay looking younger, clear the roads, and make the sun shine. After all most brides make it rain on their wedding day through fear of bad weather, so their focus is on bad luck, weather, so wish granted!

We asked god, then ask why! Now you know, because the universe denies us nothing, it gives us everything we mistakenly ask for. So if we could dismiss every belief we have, strip back to the day we were born, before seeds were planted. And woke up every morning filled with gratitude, if sprung out of bed happy expecting our day to go well, and looked forward to many wonderful surprises ahead, then we would turn our life around.

So meditate more, switch off the distractions filling your mind with all the negative stuff on a daily basis, cut down on the news, if it isn’t happening in your own back yard then it simply isn’t happening. You at least attracted a safe space in your life, a little money, a home, water, food, heating, etc. And if you focus on what you have, then you have the abiity to attract more through your good vibes, because love, light and gratitude spreads to others in the world. If you smile at your neighbour and make them feel good, they smile at their neighbour until your smile reaches all around the globe. That’s why we all smile, because we’re infectous souls.

So when we see those what we may consider complete nutters creating laughing classes, there really is something in it, and those flowery fools hugging trees? I must inform you, they are the ones who have it right! I hate to say it because once upon a time I thought them crazy too. But now I know, a good heart to heart with a tree is our connection to the earth, to living, breathing, loving nature. So empty the mind and become the tree.

Meditate in the softness of the breeze, listen to the delicate whispering leaves, root your feet and self to ground, and raise your spirit to the sky. And change self, from the caterpillar to the butterfly you came here to be.