When a child is born they cry for food, comfort, warmth, love. A toddler wants everything they see, and throw tantrums when told no. But those natural feelings that feel no guilt are bred out of the child, they are taught not to be selfish, to share. Told they can’t have everything they want and shamed and guilt tripped if they want more in life, then told later they can do, be and have anything they want in life. How hypocritical us adults are.

We say, I never had anything so I want to work hard to ensure my child has everything. Too late… The damage is already done, and the only way to ensure our children have everything we never had, is to succeed ourselves! To break the chain of self distruction and poverty our parents taught us. The cheetah, lion cub learns how to play, kill and survive in the wild by a matriarch, just as our children learn from us, from our actions, eating habits, work ethics and finances. The book ‘Rich dad Poor dad!’

Both gave their son a learning experience, such as how to be rich and how not to be poor. Whenever I think, I can’t afford something I really want it does not manifest in my reality, but whenever I think, I must have that, how can I get it, the universe finds the means to bring it into my reality!

We should stop telling children as their brains develop, that they can’t have everything they want, and teach them how to get it for themselves. Because when we say we have to work hard for everything we want, it translate as, you can’t have anything unless you work for it, you are not worthy of gifts from god. Many men and women sell their bodies to get rich but it means they believe they are unworthy if their looks disappear.

It teaches we are not enough unless we are a slave to others in some way. And if we can’t or won’t do such things for the pleasure of others then we remain poor, no matter how perfect, young, beautiful, kind and worthy we may be, if we don’t provide for the ugly, the perverse, the elderly, wealthy, and evil we remain poor. How many beauties live in poverty despite opportunity just because of what they were taught by their parents?

So teach them the power of their own mind, tell them that can be, do and have anything they want, they just need to attract it. Accept a child’s out bursts and emotions just as we accept their joy, laughter and playfulness.

We were meant to cry or god would not have given us tears and emotions. We were never meant to be silenced, suppressed, emotionally stunted. So stop telling them money is hard to come by, life isn’t easy, we must work hard for what we have. Where did that lie come from, does a baby, toddler or child work for the roof over their head? For the clothes on their backs?

The food they put in their mouths, free car rides, play centres or the toys they are given? They just enjoy their life, and so attract all those things. We are the mugs who work hard to provide all those things for our small children, because we were taught this lie by our parents and our society!

The rich teach their children a very different lesson, and want to keep you working for them! And we fell for it hook line and sinker, change thought and belief. You were born a naked helpless baby like everyone else, so every last one of us attract things from the same starting point. The only difference is our teachings, our programming, and lessons from our peers.

So as well as god gifting us tears, laughter, thoughts and emotions, god also gave us free will, to seek answers, to open our heart and minds, to change our thoughts and belief, to take a new, exciting, prosperous path. You are beautiful inside and out, you are loved, worthy, you always were.